LOVE & THE BALLOT BOX...........Your #relationships are not up for a vote from those that try to in influence you.
You can't allow others decide for you.
Ballot boxes are meant for you and you alone to use as a measuring point.
You create the pluses and minuses in your mind needed to make your decisions.
You evaluate the person and decide for yourself if this is what you are looking for in
a relationship. #Dating allows you to sift through information presented by the new
person sitting across you.
Your instincts lead you at all times even when you are now aware of them.
Having a gut feeling about someone? That's your instincts talking to you.
Similar likes and dislike are not all that is required to finding a #partner.
#Feelings of comfort on a first date could be a good sign.
It is all up to you. What others say may have some validity, however, it's up to you to
sift through what is being said. The choices belong to you alone.
Do you risk losing the most important part of you to hold on to someone?
Have you set yourself up ?
When a new #partner is subtle with threats to your independent thinking and self expression they are trying to #dominate you. Sometimes you may not even be aware.
Don't try to hold on to a partner that tries to always get their way by capitulating.
Your integrity and honor is at stake. Beware.
Someone that really cares, even when you just begin dating, wants an equal partnership.
They don't insist that they are always right and are willing to balance an issue with compromise.
#Dating is fun (but always remember) it is meant to explore how well two people can meld together and have an equal partnership. Perhaps even a future.